Settled disputes
Browse real arguments settled by the Social Court judge: who's right, who's at fault, and why. From chores to road trips to first dates.
- Am I wrong for not letting my friend borrow my car?30/70
- Am I wrong for saying no when my friend asked to borrow money?30/70
- Am I wrong for saying no to being a bridesmaid?30/70
- Am I wrong for refusing to stop every hour for bathroom breaks on a road trip?60/40
- Am I wrong for charging my friend rent to crash on my couch?35/65
- Am I wrong for being hurt I wasn't invited to my friend's birthday?60/40
- Am I wrong for wanting to split rent 50/50 when I make more than my partner?62/38
- Am I wrong for not wanting kids at my wedding?30/70
- Am I wrong for ordering the most expensive thing when someone else is paying?65/35
- Am I wrong for being mad my partner invited their friend on our vacation?35/65
- Am I wrong for returning a gift my partner picked out for me?45/55
- Am I wrong for bringing store-bought food to a potluck?30/70
- Am I wrong for Venmo requesting my friend $7?30/70
- Am I wrong for not picking up when my friend calls without texting first?40/60
- Am I wrong for watching the next episode without my partner?60/40
- Do I have to chip in for a group gift I didn't pick out?30/70
- Am I wrong for refusing to babysit my sister's kids for free?30/70
- Am I wrong for not wanting to go to my partner's work holiday party?60/40
- Am I wrong for refusing to host Thanksgiving again this year?30/70
- Do I have to pay if I invited everyone out to dinner?60/40
- Am I wrong for not wanting to share my location with my partner?35/65
- Am I wrong for sleeping in the guest room because my partner snores?35/65
- Am I wrong for being mad I always have to plan our dates?35/65
- Am I wrong for asking my friend to pay me for watching their dog?30/70
- Am I wrong for being mad my friend barely tipped when we split the bill?30/70
- Am I wrong for being mad my roommate got a cat without asking me?25/75
- Am I wrong for being mad my roommate wore my clothes without asking?30/70
- Am I wrong for refusing to always be the one who drives to my friend?35/65
- Am I wrong for refusing to switch seats on the plane?30/70
- Am I wrong for not chipping in for the alcohol when I don't drink?30/70
- Am I wrong for wearing white to my friend's wedding?60/40
- Am I wrong for taking the aux when my friend is driving?60/40
- Am I wrong for not wanting to give my mother-in-law a key to our house?35/65
- Should I have to pay half the utilities if I'm never home?55/45
- Am I wrong for expecting my guests to help clean up after I hosted?35/65
- Am I wrong for letting my dog sleep in our bed when my partner hates it?60/40
- Do I have to pay for something I broke at a friend's house?70/30
- Am I wrong for leaving the group chat without saying anything?60/40
- Am I wrong for being mad my roommate never buys toilet paper?30/70
- Am I wrong for asking my neighbor to keep it down after 11pm?30/70
- Do I have to pay the parking ticket I got in my friend's car?75/25
- Am I wrong for not helping my friend move when they never help me?35/65
- Am I wrong for being mad I have to remind my partner to do everything?35/65
- Am I wrong for not wanting to be the designated driver every time?35/65
- Am I wrong for being mad my partner didn't defend me in front of their mom?35/65
- Am I wrong for not letting my partner go through my phone?60/40
- Am I wrong for rolling the dice when I thought their turn was over?45/55
- Am I wrong for not wanting to buy a $300 bridesmaid dress?40/60
- Am I wrong for being mad my friend is on their phone the whole time we hang out?30/70
- Am I wrong for posting a photo of my friend without asking?65/35
- Am I wrong for making guests take their shoes off in my house?30/70
- Am I wrong for being mad my partner told their friend about our fight?40/60
- Am I wrong for being mad my friend brought someone to dinner without asking?30/70
- Am I wrong for not wanting to combine finances with my partner?55/45
- Am I wrong for not giving a wedding gift when I paid to travel to the wedding?35/65
- Am I wrong for wanting to spend the holidays with my family instead of my in-laws?40/60
- Am I wrong for being mad my partner spent $600 without telling me?35/65
- Am I wrong for asking my friend to stop using my Netflix?35/65
- Am I wrong for being mad my roommate had people over without asking?35/65
- Am I wrong for eating their food after they said I could have it?15/85
- Does my friend owe me money for forgetting to book the campsite?15/85
- Am I wrong for writing someone's speech when they never wrote it themselves?25/75
- Am I wrong for asking a no-show guest to pay for their wedding plate?35/65
- Am I wrong for not letting my friend bring their dog over?25/75
- Am I wrong for being mad my neighbor parks in front of my house?65/35
- Am I wrong for taking the master bedroom because I booked the Airbnb?55/45
- Am I wrong for taking my roommate's clothes out of the dryer?35/65
- Am I wrong for being mad my friend returned my car on empty?30/70
- Am I wrong for not going to my friend's destination wedding?30/70
- Am I wrong for not splitting the Uber evenly when I got dropped off first?40/60
- Am I wrong for reloading the dishwasher after my partner does it?60/40
- Am I wrong for not picking my friend up from the airport at 5am?60/40
- Am I wrong for teeing off first because I made birdie?20/80
- Am I wrong for not wanting to pay for my friend's bachelorette trip?35/65
- Am I wrong for being mad my friend always cancels plans last minute?70/30
- Am I wrong for asking my roommate's boyfriend to pay rent if he's here every night?35/65
- Am I wrong for not wanting to chip in for the birthday person's meal?60/40
- Am I wrong for not texting my partner back for hours?40/60
- Am I wrong for wanting to split rent by room size instead of evenly?35/65
- Am I wrong for not wanting my in-laws to stay with us for a whole week?40/60
- Am I wrong for expecting my date to pay on the first date?55/45
- Am I wrong for not giving my friend a plus-one to my wedding?35/65
- Am I wrong for refusing to walk the dog my partner wanted?55/45
- Do passengers have to chip in for gas on a road trip?40/60
- Am I cheap for not tipping on takeout orders?40/60
- Is being tired a good excuse to skip your turn at the chores?30/70
- Should you split the bill evenly if you ordered less?35/65
- Whose fault is it when nobody books the hotel and it sells out?85/15
- Does cooking dinner get you out of doing the dishes?65/35
- Does your friend owe you money they keep forgetting to pay back?20/80
- Can you give away someone else's concert ticket?25/75
- Whose turn is it to take out the trash?5/95
- Is the last slice of leftover pizza fair game?55/45
- Should your roommate pay for the groceries he keeps eating?25/75
- Who gets to control the thermostat in a shared home?45/55
- Is it rude to show up 15 minutes late?60/40
- Is it rude to recline your airplane seat?40/60